What we have completely for ourselves are our thoughts! The other side is that what we are is according to what we think. Our thoughts own us. Our thought becomes our actions and our habits. So, it is important to keep our thoughts positive to keep ourselves positive. The key is to let a positive outlook to persons and situations determine our thoughts. A positive outlook created in faith and conviction that there is something good in everyone and in every situation. A negative outlook is the worst you can do to your self. Let your positive outlook determine your thoughts.