Stop pretending! We pretend to know, we pretend to be unhurt, we pretend that everything is fine…like this list goes on. But pretention is not good. It puts you in a situation where you will not be part of it. At the same time, you will be responsible for the situation. Often it comes as a coping mechanism a way to protect ourselves from immediate stress or to navigate social situations more smoothly. The fear of vulnerability and the potential for rejection or judgment often compels us to hide behind a mask. . It’s a complex balance, as society often expects a certain level of pretense in professional and social contexts, yet yearns for authenticity at a deeper, more human level. Navigating this requires self-awareness and courage. It involves recognizing when we’re pretending and asking ourselves why. Is it for self-preservation, to conform to societal expectations, or something else? Understanding the reasons behind our actions can be the first step towards choosing authenticity when it truly matters. It might not be easy or comfortable, but living authentically can lead to a more fulfilling and connected life.
Don Giorgio