Feb 18, 2024 | POSITIVE IMPULSES
When someone judges you unjustly, try not to take it personally. People judge unjustly for various reasons. Because of the lack of sufficient data to make the right judgement. Because of overzealous to do good. Because of past experiences. Because of lack of experiences. Because of wrong concepts. Because of wrong perceptions. There can be lots of reasons. So, when the thorns of such judgments try to pierce into your heart, try to arm yourself with the shield of discernment. Try to take care of yourself with your intelligence by separating your real self and the judged self. Embrace the wisdom to see beyond the ephemeral fog of others’ perceptions, to the enduring light of your true self. Emotionally affected, don’t try to degrade your real self into the image of your judged self. There lies the danger of losing yourself into the darkness of negativities. Remember, how you respond to unjust judgment is within your control. By choosing not to internalize it, by choosing to uphold the sanctity of your self-worth, you protect your self-esteem and maintain your focus on what truly matters—your own path and growth.
Don Giorgio
Feb 12, 2024 | POSITIVE IMPULSES
Relationship to God must be as a relationship to our Creator who accompanies us always, who know us as we are, and who accepts us as we are. But often we relate ourselves to God based on a set of rules and norms. Or based on our devotional activities. This makes our relationship to God without life. The rules, norms, and devotional activities serve as pathways or methods to engage with God, but they are not substitutes for a genuine, living relationship with God. This distinction is crucial for a heartfelt and transformative faith journey. The danger lies in conflating the means with the end. When the focus on external practices becomes the entirety of one’s spiritual life, it can lead to a form of religiosity that lacks the personal, intimate connection that lies at the heart of a meaningful relationship with God. This requires an open heart, a willingness to listen and respond, and the cultivation of an ongoing, dynamic interaction with God. It’s about allowing those practices to transform us, fostering a heart-to-heart connection with God that informs and enriches every aspect of our lives.
Don Giorgio
Jan 25, 2024 | POSITIVE IMPULSES
In each startling experience weaves a new thread, revealing a different dimension of the eternal truth. The truth does not change. It remains an unchanging beacon amidst the tempests of our lives. But the truth is more than our first impression. But in new experiences, as startling as they may be, offer us a unique perspective, allowing us to see and understand the world in a new light. In this pilgrimage, we are reborn, not just as mere spectators but as empathetic sojourners, resilient warriors, and wise seekers of the hidden crevices of knowledge. They challenge our preconceived notions and push us to expand our understanding, making us more empathetic, resilient, and wise. So, when faced with the shock of the new or the unknown, remember that it’s an opportunity to deepen your grasp of the many facets of truth and life.
Don Giorgio
Jan 14, 2024 | POSITIVE IMPULSES
The more someone tries to cast shadows upon your radiant soul, the more you should guard the divine spark in yourself, the celestial gift bestowed upon you by the Creator. Though the trials of life: persons, and circumstances, might conspire to shroud your perception, causing your sight to dim and lose sight of this inner glow, remember this light is unextinguishable, because it’s the sublime presence of the loving God in you. Don’t let the darkness in others eclipse your vision, but rather, let your inner eyes remain wide open to see through the window of your soul, this divine light in the blossoming garden of your spirit. Simultaneously, let your outer eyes softly close, turning away from the night that tries to cover us, ensuring your own inner flame burns ever brighter against the backdrop of the shadows of the circumstances.
Don Giorgio
Jul 17, 2023 | POSITIVE IMPULSES
It is important to cultivate a mindset that appreciates and embraces ideas from others. This involves actively listening, considering alternative viewpoints, and being open to constructive criticism. By doing so, we can foster an environment that encourages collaboration and intellectual growth, leading to the development of stronger and more innovative ideas. Dismissing an idea solely based on the fact that it didn’t originate from oneself is an example of intellectual bias and a lack of openness to new perspectives. Ultimately, the worth of an idea should be determined by its content, feasibility, and potential impact, rather than whether it aligns with our personal preferences or ego.
Don Giorgio
May 25, 2023 | POSITIVE IMPULSES
Conflict is not bad. It is not inherently bad or negative. We must discover the positive potentials of conflicts rather going to the negative results. Conflicts can be an important catalyst for growth, change and even innovation. Conflict discovers its positive potentials when it fosters open communication, where diverse opinions can lead to better decision-making and problem-solving. Often when conflict is identified with one’s ego, it leads to damaging relationship and negative consequences. See the conflict as an opportunity for growth and embrace it with respect and willingness to find the best solution and not my solution.
Don Giorgio
