Our relationships

Our relationships

We can build our relationships based on our rights or duties. But it’s better to build it over our duties than our rights. Unfortunately often our rights try to dictate the conditions of our relationship. And our relationships become disparity relationships where we may feel superiority. Becomes more a practical adjustment rather than a relationship. Whereas if we build a relationship based upon our duties to relate, to communicate, to share, something totally different comes out. A relationship of parity and equality.

Don Giorgio

Acting with attitude is very important

Acting with attitude is very important

Acting with attitude is very important. It’s better to have each action with an attitude. Actions or acts without attitude are those without life. Actions with positive attitude generates positive energy and actions with negative attitude generates negative energy. The best and easy positive attitude is the gratitude. Be grateful for what you are and what you have. Gratitude is an attitude which creates space for development and realization.

Don Giorgio

Authority

Authority

Authority is power over oneself to transform himself or herself into service for the other. It must be principally directed towards oneself not towards the other. When authority is interpreted as a power over the other, it loses its authentic meaning. Actually, when you don’t have authority over yourself, is when you try to control others. Authority of a father is the ability to transform himself into a good father and not in controlling the children. The more you can give yourself to the other to become what you are, the more authority you will have.

Don Giorgio

Our connections and relationships

Our connections and relationships

Our connections and our relationships are not the same. Connections are making use of each other. Relationships are walking together. Connections are selfish motivated. Relationships are selfless. Connections move forward based on maintaining common interests. Relationships move forward based on sacrificing individual interests. Connections end when one is no more useful. Relations are forever. We can add lot more differentiating elements. Invest in relations and not in connections. Because relations are sacred, connections are fleeting.

Don Giorgio

Competition and Comparison

Competition and Comparison

Competition and Comparison often make you unhappy. Each one of us is unique and we have something unique to contribute. Get inspired from others. Get challenged by others. But this should not make you blindly imitate the other which will result in frustrations and unhappiness. Find out the best in you, inspired by the other, challenged by the other, and give what is best in you and be happy in what you give. In the best what you give, competition and comparison disappear, uniqueness and happiness appear.

Don Giorgio

Abundance

Abundance

Rewrite the concept of abundance to be happy always. Because it’s our concept of abundance that makes us down sometimes. Abundance is to recognize everything and everyone in our life rather than what is missing and who is missing. Abundance is to see the richness of everything and everyone in our life rather than comparing with others. Abundance is to perceive all the possibilities and opportunities around us rather than closing eyes to the existing potentialities.

Don Giorgio