When someone judges you unjustly, try not to take it personally. People judge unjustly for various reasons. Because of the lack of sufficient data to make the right judgement. Because of overzealous to do good. Because of past experiences. Because of lack of experiences. Because of wrong concepts. Because of wrong perceptions. There can be lots of reasons. So, when the thorns of such judgments try to pierce into your heart, try to arm yourself with the shield of discernment. Try to take care of yourself with your intelligence by separating your real self and the judged self. Embrace the wisdom to see beyond the ephemeral fog of others’ perceptions, to the enduring light of your true self. Emotionally affected, don’t try to degrade your real self into the image of your judged self. There lies the danger of losing yourself into the darkness of negativities. Remember, how you respond to unjust judgment is within your control. By choosing not to internalize it, by choosing to uphold the sanctity of your self-worth, you protect your self-esteem and maintain your focus on what truly matters—your own path and growth.
Don Giorgio