Something is so obvious for us, and we think that it’s obvious for all others. And this brings us into a conflict with others. Why that is not obvious for others? That is a wrong question. The right question should be, “is it obvious for others what is obvious for me”? This brings the contrary situation also; “it is not clear to me” does not mean it is also not clear for others. So instead going to conflict, let’s try to sort it out intelligently. In the former have the humility and patience to explain and, in the latter, have the same to ask.
Don Giorgio